Answer
The first thing to understand is that anarthas are not your true identity. They are simply unwanted coverings that need to be removed.
Srila Prabhupada gives the example of pure water. When pure water falls onto muddy ground, it appears muddy. Experientially, we call it muddy water, but in essence, the water itself has not changed. Water remains water.
Similarly, the soul remains eternally pure. The anarthas reside in the subtle body—the mind, intelligence, and false ego—not in the soul itself. Therefore, do not identify yourself with your impurities.
Your situation is changing—from being influenced by many anarthas to gradually becoming purified—but you, the soul, are not changing.
In the same way that you learn to observe time (kāla) as something external to yourself, you should also observe your mental conditioning without identifying with it.
Many modern self-help teachings encourage people to "be in the present," but they often lack this transcendental understanding. They ask you to imagine yourself being present. Our philosophy is different.
We recognize that time is a real feature of the material energy, but the soul is transcendental to matter. Why should you be carried away by time when you are not material?
The more you learn to observe material energy—including time, the mind, emotions, and anarthas—as objects of awareness rather than as your identity, the more empowered you become.
When you can observe something, you can manage it.
When you observe your mind, you can manage your mind.
When you observe your emotions, you can manage your emotions.
When you observe material energy and the influence of time, you can respond to them with free will rather than simply reacting.
Awareness gives rise to freedom.
For example, if a piece of wood is lying before you, you can use your free will to shape it into a box or any other object. But you can only do so because you can see it.
Similarly, within our consciousness there may be many accumulated anarthas. To transform them, we first need to become aware of them.
How does that awareness develop?
It comes through the Hare Krishna maha-mantra. Chanting refines consciousness and creates the spiritual sensitivity needed to perceive these subtle influences. The holy name is the tool that gradually cleanses the heart and awakens this higher awareness.
Then you naturally begin to experience what it truly means to live in the present.
Once self-realization is established, there is no obsession with the future.
You understand:
Krishna is the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
I have surrendered to Him.
My eternal constitutional position is to render loving service to Him.
Beyond that, there is nothing else to achieve.
Devotional service is not performed as a means to attain some future goal. Service itself is the perfection because it is the eternal nature of the soul.
Therefore, the devotee serves simply to please Krishna, not to obtain something in the future.
Everything essential has already been attained. The only remaining task is to continue serving the Lord with devotion and sincerity.